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That review makes the book compelling, thanks Noelle. (Incidentally – nothing to do with your review! – when my mother was paralysed and speechless from a stroke (from which she recovered) she was clearly troubled about something. My brothers and sisters brought every thing from her bathroom and a good deal of other stuff. It turned out that what she was trying to say was that “Bruce is not to waste money coming over from the USA!”)
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What a great story!
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It’s a superb review, Bruce. I’m glad that your mother recovered from her stroke.
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Thank you. My other always spoke with a German accent after the stroke!
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I admire Trish for writing the book, and you for reading it. I don’t think I could read it, but she already knows that!
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It’s pretty emotional!
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Thanks for the comment, Jemima – and I really do understand. x
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An excellent review, Noelle. I’ll be adding Alex Craigie’s book to my TBR!
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Great, Bette!
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You can imagine how happy that makes me, Bette! Many thanks.
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Reblogged this on Thorne Moore and commented:
A great review of a seriously good book, Someone Close to Home, by Alex Craigie
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Thanks, Thorne!
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Thanks, Thorne – much appreciated!
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A great review. Someone Close to Home is a very compelling read but also an unexpectedly gripping one, half social commentary, half thriller.
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A great comment from a great author herself.
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It’s something I feel really strongly about and I’m relaly grateful for your comment, Thorne..
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As someone with a close family member currently transitioning to nursing home care (and having had to deal with this in the past), I’m not sure I could read this book just now, at this point in my life, but I do have another of Alex/Trish’s book coming up on my TBR. In fact, it’s next on my read list. I’m sure I will find it every bit as compelling as you found this one!
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I completely understand, MC. With that same reasoning, I cannot read any books about Covid or pandemics.
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I do discourage people in your situation from reading it, Mae. It’s an unsettling subject and it would be wrong to give anyone unnecessary anxiety during an already stressful time.
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What an emotional book. I used to work in care homes, and this is one of my biggest concerns as I get older. Terrific review!
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Thanks, Wendy!
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Thanks, Wendy. This is a wonderful review and I’ve only just discovered it! I’m such a Facebook eejit!
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I second your recommendation, Noelle. This was a terrific read. As I read it, I thought of the many levels of care I saw for my mom in assisted living. She had some fabulous care workers and some that should have been doing something else. (I was not aware of any physical abuse in Trish’s book.) The crucial thing is to make sure we go out of the way to meet all of the workers so that they understand we’re advocates for our loved ones.
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We faced some of these problems as my mother moved from an apartment to assisted living to total care at a retirement home. Thefts, bad food – a good thing my brother was nearby. It was so hurtful for my Mom, but she adamantly refused to come live with us. Stubborn woman, like her daughter!
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We went through the same phase. Understandably, Mom wanted to live in her own home for as possible. She’d fall and end up in the hospital, once fracturing her pelvis. I had to hire caregivers to come in for her, but Mom didn’t like having them in her house. They’d quit when she’d threaten to call the police or wouldn’t let them in. It was a very challenging time, so I have great respect for skilled caregivers.
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My husband and I are rapidly approaching that time of life. We hope to stay in our home, but who knows. The future is very uncertain!
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Many thanks, Pete. Most care workers are the lovliest people you could come across. It’s the one or two that shouldn’t be in the job that worry me.
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I’ll be blogging about this soon, but I started volunteering by reading to residents in my mom’s old assisted living center.
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Noelle, thanks for bringing to light this book. Alex Craigie could just as easily set this story in the U.S. On a personal level, I know this to be true. My mom was left in a nursing home by my brothers. Mom and I lived 2200 miles apart; she in TN, and I in OR. At age 86, mom was dependent on others for her care. She often had UTIs which can leave the mind muddled. She would try to tell me something was wrong, but it was never clear. Remembering an episode of 60 Minutes where families were warned to make surprise visits to these facilities if you were suspicious things weren’t going well. I did just that and found my mom was being not only neglected but physically abused. I could not get her out of there fast enough. Please everyone be aware of the abuses and neglect that go on in nursing homes and care facilities. Those residents who are never checked on by family (my brothers never went to see our mom) are those neglected and abused because no one is watching. I don’t think I could read this book even though my experience is in the past. I’m still emotional about what I found.
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I second your comments, Sherry. My brother and I moved our mom to a retirement home and although he visited her regularly, and I every two weeks (because of distance), she had some of her belongings stolen and the food was frequently less than edible. She kept food for herself in her room and we took her out for meals often. It was a depressing place but she refused to come and live with me. Stubborn woman. I completely understand your reluctance to read the book.
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I’m sorry to read about your mother’s experience in the retirement home, Noelle. Sadly, that kind of situation is commonplace. When my mother needed a care home we turned up at the nearest one unannounced in the hope of getting a more honest picture of the place before agreeing to her going there. Many people are rightly anxious about the costs. I don’t know what the situation is in the US but here the average weekly cost is £704 (or £888 if it’s a nursing home). For that, most residents end up in a room the size of a garage. I would hope that at the very least the food would be something to look forward to.
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That’s awful, Sherrey. I’m so glad you found out and able to move her from such a toxic environment.
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Sounds like an emotional read Noelle, from which I would like to stay away as of now.
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It is. I stay away from books about the pandemic for the same reason.
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I do understand ‘Rainnbooks’. I witnessed some of these things myself and it was a distressing experience.
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Noelle, I’m beyond delighted and touched by this review. I almost missed it altogether and am so glad that someone directed me to it. I really do appreciate the trouble you’ve taken in writing it and I’m sure you must know how buoyed I am by it. Bless you!
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You are most welcome. It was a great read that I couldn’t put down.
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It sounds brilliant Noelle. I’ve downloaded a sample to see if it’s for me, as I usually do before buying.
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A wise thing to do. A book may not be for everyone, and reviews are made in the eye of the reviewer!
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